The Puttick Family

2004 - 2009
LocationWestbury
Age5 years
Date of Death31/05/2009
Visitors6,084 since 02/06/2009
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A five-year-old boy whose body was found in a rucksack at Beachy Head with those of his mother
Kazumi Puttick and Neil Puttick had died from meningitis at his home four days earlier, police have
now revealed.

Sam Puttick was discharged from hospital on Friday and had died later. His mother Kazumi Puttick,
44, and her husband, Neil, 34, wanted Sam to die at home in Westbury, Wiltshire.

Det Insp Ian Williams, of Sussex Police, said: "I am satisfied that Samuel's grieving parents Neil
and Kazumi appear to have taken their own lives.

Sam Puttick had been paralysed from the neck down following a car crash in July 2005 and was a
quadriplegic and needed equipment to help him breathe.

A statement posted on the 'stuff4sam' website today reads "It is with great sadness we have to share
the terrible news about Neil, Kazumi and Sam. Sam died from meningitis on Friday and it seems that
Neil and Kazumi took their own lives shortly after that."

"We are all very shocked at this terrible news and thinking of everyone who cared for Sam or were
close to Neil and Kazumi who are dealing with this tragic situation. We are all better for knowing
them and Sam could not have wished for better parents."

A spokesman for Bath and North East Somerset NHS said: "When it became clear that Sam had no hope of
recovery from his severe infection, he was discharged to his family home at his parents' request."
He was certified dead at the family home by a doctor at about 2000 BST.

The NHS said the discharge to home of seriously ill children was an accepted part of the palliative
withdrawal of treatment to support the families of dying children.

Rescuers found a second rucksack, full of toys, near the bodies.

Tributes have been paid on Memorial on the GoneTooSoon memorial site to the Puttick family, found
dead on a beach in the south of England.


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My Dear Family xx
It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...

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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...

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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...

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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realise...

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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...

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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...

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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...

Mandy Barry 3 weeks ago

6th october 2009

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ჱܓBestest" Angel Hugsჱܓ

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I'm just a little Angel
Sent from up above
To help guide you and protect you
And give you lots of love.
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On those days when you feel lonely
Kinda sad and blue
You'll feel my little Angel wings
Tenderly enfolding you.
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I'm just a little Angel
Come down from Heaven above
Who will always and forever
Give you my "Bestest" Angel Hugs
lv mandy.xxxxxxxx.

Mandy Barry October 6, 2009

angel

`*♥*`ITS HARD TO HIDE A BROKEN HEART.........

♥♥ HOW CAN ANYONE SEE MY BROKEN HEART ♥♥
♥♥ THEY WOULD NOT KNOW WHERE TO START ♥♥
♥♥ THIS IS NOT SOMETHING ANYONE CAN SEE ♥♥
♥♥ MY HEART IS HIDING INSIDE OF ME ♥♥

♥♥ I'M SURE IF IT COULD BLEED IT WOULD ♥♥
♥♥ PEOPLE LIKE MYSELF ARE MISUNDERSTOOD ♥♥
♥♥ WE ARE ALL HURTING AND IN SO MUCH PAIN ♥♥
♥♥ MY LIFE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN ♥♥

♥♥ THE TEARS OF SADNESS, I CAN'T HELP BUT WEEP ♥♥
♥♥ MY BROKEN HEART IS MINE ALONE TO KEEP ♥♥
♥♥ ONLY ANOTHER PERSON LIKE MYSELF WOULD KNOW ♥♥
♥♥ HOW HARD IT IS TO LET OUR REAL FEELINGS SHOW ♥♥
♥..:: l٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉг :: ..♥

lv mandy.xxx.

Mandy Barry September 22, 2009

night angel.xxx.

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Goodnight Little Angel

Goodnight little angel
As you lay down your head
The angels will watch over you
And tuck you into bed

Sweet dreams precious child
Rest your little eyes
The angels watching over you
Will sing you lullabies

copyright� Ingrid Aspey 2/9/09

Night night.. Love Ingrid xxx

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lv mandy.xxx.

Mandy Barry September 21, 2009

SWEET SWEET ANGEL.X.

~~~~~ I'll Try To Be Strong ~~~~~~~

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When the pain and grief are over
When it's my time to be by your side
I know you'll be waiting for me
And will greet me with arms open wide

Until then I'll go on living
Though the light in my life has gone
The road will be long and lonely
But I'll bear up and try to be strong

I pray that angels will guide me
Help me to get through this pain
Give me the strengh to go on
Till we are together again.x.
lv mandy.xxxxxxxxx.

Mandy Barry September 11, 2009

BEAUTIFUL ANGEL.XXX.

~~~~ White Feather ~~~~

:*:A gap in the curtain
let in the light:*:
as I lay on my pillow
sleeping last night:*:

:*:I opened my eyes
the light was so bright:*:
I was sure that I heard you
whisper night night:*:

:*:A little white feather
tickled my nose:*:
Where did it come from
do you suppose:*:

:*:Had you been to visit
to whisper night night:*:
And left the white feather
I think that you might:*:
lv alway,s mandy.xxx.

Mandy Barry September 8, 2009

To My Dearest Family,
Some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know,
That I arrived okay.

I'm writing this from heaven.
Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness;
Here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy
Just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you
Every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you
When my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me
And He said, "I welcome you.

It's good to have you back again,
You were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family,
They'll be here later on.

There's so much that we have to do,
To help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things,
That he wished for me to do.

And foremost on the list,
Was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night
The day's chores put to flight.

God and I are closest to you....
In the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth,
And all those loving years.

Because you are only human,
They are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry:
It does relieve the pain.

Remember there would be no flowers,
Unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you
All that God has planned.

If I were to tell you,
You wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain,
Though my life on earth is o'er.

I'm closer to you now,
Than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads
Ahead of you and many hills to climb;

But together we can do it
By taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy
And I'd like it for you too;

That as you give unto the world,
The world will give to you.
If you can help somebody
Who's in sorrow and pain;

Then you can say to God at night......
"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....
That my life was worthwhile.

Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody
Who is sad and feeling low;

Just lend a hand to pick him up,
As on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street
And you've got Me on your mind;

I'm walking in your footsteps
Only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....
From that body to be free.

Remember you're not going.....
You're coming here to Me.

Mandy Barry August 31, 2009

A SONG FOR YOU GEORGES.X.

~**~Wind Beneath Our Wings~**~


Ohhhh, oh, oh, oh, ohhh.
It must have been cold there in our shadow,
to never have sunlight on your face.
You were content to let us shine, that's your way.
You always walked a step behind.
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So we were the ones with all the glory,
while you were the one with all the strain.
A beautiful face without a name for so long.
A beautiful smile to hide the pain.
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Did you ever know that you're our hero,
and everything we would like to be?
We can fly higher than an eagle,
for you are the wind beneath our wings.
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It might have appeared to go unnoticed,
but we've got it all here in our hearts.
We want you to know we know the truth, of course we know it.
We would be nothing without you,
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Did you ever know that you're our hero?
You're everything we wish we could be.
we could fly higher than an eagle,
for you are the wind beneath our wings.
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Did we ever tell you you're our hero?
You're everything, everything we wish we could be.
Oh, and we, we could fly higher than an eagle,
for you are the wind beneath our wings,
'cause you are the wind beneath our wings.
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You, you, you, you are the wind beneath our wings.
Fly, fly, fly away. You let us fly so high.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath our wings.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath our wings.
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Fly, fly, fly high against the sky,
so high we almost touch the sky.
Thank you, thank you,
thank God for you, the wind beneath our wings.
bett midler
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L;V MANDY.XXXXXXXXX.

Mandy Barry August 22, 2009

BEAUTIFUL ANGELS.X.

* A Letter from Heaven * *

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To those I love,


You hold on to me so tightly in your hearts - where I shall always be.

Your concern has always been for me, but I wonder how you are doing.
You will never know all the prayers that have been prayed for you. the tears that have been shed over your grief and the concern that has been shown for you in multitude of ways, but I find it so comforting to know you havent been left alone.

Please know that I am not alone, either. The death that hurt you the most has given me the gift of eternal life. Never let anyone tell you God doesnt exist. If you need to be mad at Him for awhile, that's okay; He can handle it. But never let hate, anger or bitterness fuel your emotions. Talk to Him and let Him talk to you. Listen for Him in the voices of the people who love and care about you, and let His Word reassure you that I am doing just fine.

It's comforting to know that you hold me so close while struggling with the prospect of letting me go. You need to know, that we will always be together.
Eternity is not " out there" eternity is now! I have simply moved a little farther
ahead of you.

Remember that God never wastes anything - especially love.
The love that we shared on earth will be even greater in Heaven. For now, you must rest assured that I am safe in God's Perfect Love. I would like you to take some of the love you have for me and share it with those around you. You can never run out of love - the more you give away, the more you will have....and let others love you.... you are worth loving!

Be patient with yourselves. You will make some mistakes and you will even find yourselves ot thinking about "me" from time to time. That's all right too....... All my needs are being met; you need to take care of you. Hold onto one another, help each other, give hope and love to all you meet.

Above all, be prepared to welcome others into your wolrd of grief and mourning. You are being taught valuble lessons that will need to be passed along. Some will not have the strength, many will not have your faith, and most will feel they are alone; but all will need the love and understanding only you will be able to give. Now, your pain is the only credential you need to minister to others. When you think of me, never think of me as being alone.
Think of me as smiling laughing and enjoying all that God has prepared for me.

Finally, never believe you are alone. Do not focus on what you have lost, but
look always at what you have left. You are surrounded by people who love and care about you. Live with them - love with them - share with them - laugh with them ...

Make everyday a celebration of life - a life that will never end.
We will meet again - and until we do - know that I am so very proud of you
for not giving up!!!!


From - Your Loved one's in Heaven

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lv al;way,s mandy.x.x.x

Mandy Barry August 19, 2009

BEAUTIFUL ANGELS.X.

ღ♥ If I should ever leave you,
Whom I love
To go along the silent way,
Grieve not,
Nor speak of me with tears.

But laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you there
For I will come - I'll come!
Would I not find a way,
Were tears and grief not be barriers?

And when you hear a song or see a bird I loved,
Please do not let your thoughts of me be sad.
For I am loving you just as I always have ...
You who were so good to me!

There are so many thing I wanted still to do-
So many things to say to you ....
Remember, please, that I did not fear death.
It was just leaving you that was so hard to face.

You cannot see beyond this life
But this you know ... I loved you so
Never doubt that I am with you still!
For love does not die with the body
And nothing in heaven or on earth
Can keep apart those who love ♥ღ♥

lv mandy.x.

Mandy Barry August 2, 2009
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